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Adult Bullying

Bullying is not just a school thing. It happens at the work place too. If you are being bullied at work in anyway by anyone (even the boss–a good boss DOESN’T bully!!! DON’T FALL FOR THAT LIE!!! TOOOOO MANY PEOPLE FALL FOR THAT!!! ). Admit to yourself that you are being bullied and try not to fall into the trap of saying that you are being “too sensitive”(ßthat’s a lie to keep competition going at work. There’s no need to compete with anyone. They hired you because they need you!) Speak up for your soul’s sake—for your MIND and heart!!  I know that it’s not easy but think of it this way: there is a kid inside of you who relies on YOU to protect him or her.

I would not give this type of advice if I myself had not spoken up about being bullied TO the people who bullied me. I’ve had more jobs in my 16 years of working than MOST people have in 1/3 of their life. Strange but true.

So often in the past when I got hired at a new place, people didn’t know how to read me/fit me into their mind—it’s like they were insulted because I wasn’t what they wanted me to be—crazy, huh?!  From there, assumptions were made and my feelings got hurt BIG TIME. Some people thought that they could bully me because they didn’t know my age (they thought I was super young and inexperienced).

Some chose to bully me because they viewed my kindness as a weakness (Are you f**ng kidding me?! C’mon! So what, now I have to be a douchebag in order for you to think that Im strong?! Wtf?!).  I’ve worked with nothing but men, nothing but women, I’ve been the only person in a work place who doesn’t follow 1 religion(and looked at all weird because of it), I’ve been the only one who isn’t bilingual, the one whose “physical appearance doesn’t match her mental status”, the one whose physical appearance “is the reason why she got the job” , the one who “Isn’t what she seems–could it be that she’s not the typical girl I thought she’d be?”,  the only one who comes from a super mixed family (when my mom showed up or people looked me up on FB they would ask me the weirdest rudest questions in the RUDEST tone and from there choose to bully me because Im different…wtf?!)…the list goes on…so many ways to bully, so much time to do it…

One day…. the little Alma inside of me took over and then BOOM! I got loads of courage and I was able to speak up. I felt like a loaded gun with one bullet. The wind pushed the trigger…

I spoke up to my boss! You see, he would get really frustrated at things going on with his buyers and in his personal life. From there he would let of steam by JOYFULLY ordering me around like some asshole mindless intern with no spine and a shit income. WRONG! I got him and I did it in front of a client AND HIS higher up. It wasn’t planned at all. I promise. I called him a jackass and told him to run his own tasks and figure shit out on his own. I left the office, took a walk around the block and then came back.

Now…before you go and do this and get fired, I just want to say that he and I had this coming and that this is just an example of what bullying can lead to.

I held in a lot and he got away with so much. Also, at this time I was looking for a new job to replace the one that I was in and I had enough money to fall back on in case I got laid off or decided to leave my position.

O.K. so, I got back and sat down still with that look on my face that read “Say the right thing to me; don’t say something dumb and evil.” After a few minutes, my boss called me into his office and we talked. He did most of the talking, actually (I didn’t want to say much because I was so angry). He apologized to me for being a dickhead and he was really nice about it. I thanked him and then he asked if I could forgive him. I expressed that I wasn’t sure if I knew the true meaning of forgiveness but I could definatley put the incident behind me.  He said “Fine”, and from there we moved forward.

Take inventory of your life and the people you surround yourself with. Some people LIKE bullying you because they are certain that you will not stop them from running you over.

So, you are an adult- big f**ing deal! Lots of adults get bullied and ARE bullies!! Who do you think most children learn the way of the bully from?!! ADULTS!! HELLO!!!

Weed out the bullies. Watch them from a distance and you will see that they are really sensitive people who are terrified of not being taken seriously or heard. Bullies want people to fear them and love them too…yuck!

Observe your bullie(s) and when they come at you, talk a deep breath the same way you would if a huge tidal wave were approaching you and then either stand your ground or duck under.

<3

Alma

11.11.11

Question by T. Deal from Latonia, Kentucky:  “Alma, what do you mean by 'higher vibration' ?”

Answer:
I'll try to explain as best as I can… What that means is the next level of energy, a dimension that humanity is moving into as a part/result of our metaphysical evolution. We thrust ourselves daily, minute by minute in our existence into higher frequencies that allow us to take in higher levels of enlightenment. This movement is inevitable–it is the act of learning in raw form. At some point, like in grade school, we must move up to the next level. If not, we can and will surely age/mature no matter how much we try to stay back. That is how Earth life works–time. Time is something that we created in order to encompass the great manifestation that we call life on Earth. We can use time to our advantage, or we can reject it to the point of retarding our growth. There are many ways in which we identify with time– 11.11.11, even though in truth it is not a matter of "time" per say, it is a marker for us so that we can further encase the whirl wind of energetic changes within our personal energy fields, as well as the great energy field our human family. The reason why we notice "111111" or "11" is because it resonates with us– with our ability to manifest and that we were manifested into being through numbers AND their unique individual vibrations(music,letters,sound–it's all connected…). Some people have passed away because was not in their soul's plan to live in the human state past this time in our journey here on earth. 11.11.11 is an energetic marker among many other important subjects in metaphysics. 11 is a number that assists us on a spiritual level with understanding and embracing our God-given ability to manifest and intend. When you see "11" over and over, stop and pay attention to what you are thinking about and feeling, for those very emotions and thoughts may manifest situations that can be fun or burdensome in your life. Seeing "11" is a good way to keep yourself in check when it comes to the way you think. 11 asks us to take inventory and reprogram our thoughts and intentions. Quite often, when "11" appears, the very things that I'm concerning myself with manifest at a later time and then it is in those moments that I am shown once again that I assisted the Universe with bringing that very thing into my life. No,I do not have control over everything that happens in my life–of course not! However, I have the power to choose in many areas and with that, I can merge what I know to be true about what I desire, match it with my intention and then let go.  What comes out of this will be what I walk with, walk away from or set it aside. Among many other things, one reason why lots of people are excited about 11.11.11 is because they know that they have a chance to regroup and set the highest and most loving intentions for their future. It's a time to let go of the past–the hurt and resentment, and ask for the courage to move forward with strength,self-acceptance and renewal. The renewal will fly right in once the past is released and left to set and sit. Numbers are just one way in which we honor our existence, for we too are made of numbers. <3

11.10.11

I have a tendency to do things VERY last-minute. So last minute that quite often, I stress myself into deep worry then I find myself feeling guilty about worrying!  Sounds like a maze of annoyance, yes? Well, it is! Lol!! …And I let myself laugh at this because laughter is the key to diffusing the illusion that guilt is the only way to peace.

We can all step into the next dimension together with love and without blame for the things that we fear. Spread love and when it's hard to love, let go and know that the Universe will redeem you in good time.

It is 11.10.11–as the countdown to 11.11.11 continues, write down at least 5 things that you wish to release & 5 things that you wish to embrace upon moving into this higher vibration. For me so far: 1 release: guilt,  and 1 embrace: freedom!! 

xoxoxo <3 <3 <3

James Earl Jones

I am dyslexic and my attention span can be very short. Throughout my childhood and well into my teens, LOTS of people doubted me (yep, even so-called friends). They made it obvious by telling me that I was not intelligent and by talking AT me. Some of my teachers felt that because I was unable to compose a book report, I would never be able to move up in school much less earn my B.A. in journalism.
They were all wrong. They were wrong not only because I proved them wrong, but because they felt that I had to do things THEIR way in order for me to BE smart.
 The thing is, I didn't want to follow the rules of learning because they were forced into my life and my growing passion FOR my life. One minute I was asked to tutor my classmates in language arts and the next I was being told that I had to repeat 4th grade because I didn't participate in class enough…and because I didn’t know the daily prayers. Who knew my story? No one. Only me.
 As for dyslexia, the best way for me to express why it is not a handicap for me: When I'm dreaming and seeing psychically, I feel like I'm seeing with my eyes reversed back into my head! It's comfortable for me, yet I understand that when I’m awake, I need to slow down and then focus better. It is part of me and it’s something to embrace and use as a tool in my life. It’s not a ball and chain…do you understand what I mean?  
After all of that pain, I am now a writer (B.A. from SUNY Purchase) and I STILL love to read!
BTW, I f**ing hated book reports. They never allowed me to cover the important themes and draw out profound aspects and symbolism through my own honest perspective.
Anyway, you know your story and YOU know your limits and freedoms. Don't let your so-called handicaps stop you from pursuing your dreams–the crippling does not come from the so-called handicaps, but from doubting that the things that are special about you do not belong in your dream or along the way to your dream!
James Earl Jones stuttered as a child. He still has to stop and think before he speaks in order to calm the stuttering.
His voice is magical and he’s well known for his diction and speech patterns. <3

Clairgustance & Clairalience : Black Licorice


"God, this sucks. I have so much
shit to do and here I am laying in bed feeling like bombs are going off
inside of me. It's going to be a long f*ing day!"


"99 problems but the rag ain't one! whoo hoo!!!"

I've told this story to a few of my female friends and now, it's time for me to share it with you :)

When
I was in my last year and 1/2 of college, I had the WORSE and most
debilitating menstrual cramps, EVER(for me that is). In fact, I would
get so sick that I would miss class and work from time to time because I
couldn't straighten my body enough to get out of bed. I would cry and
not eat for pretty much the whole day. Birth control was suggested and
all that other stuff but, I felt that there was another way around the
hell that I was experiencing.

Anyway, one day at work a
few weeks before my period I got a mental nudge to eat black licorice.
At first I thought it was weird because at the time, the thought of
black licorice grossed me out–I never liked it before so why now? Why
all of a sudden? As the days passed, I started smelling black licorice
where ever I went. I smelled it when I woke up, when I was at work zoned
out and pricing merchandise, I smelled it during my journalism classes
and when I was on the train. I smelled it on my way to school and
work… it was everywhere.

One afternoon at work, I began
to actually CRAVE real black licorice. At that point, I was super
surprised at myself because I didn't think that it would get to the
point where I would actually WANT TO EAT black licorice. I tasted it in
the back of my mouth and I smelled it all over me. Black licorice was
very present in my energy field.

A couple of hours passed
then my lunch break came. I decided to go to GNC (a popular shop here in
the United States) and buy Panda brand all natural black licorice. I
ate so much of that box that I decided 1 week later to buy another one.
The following week came and as usual, I began dreading the day/time that
it would start. I set up my night stand with medicine water and saltine
crackers.

As the days slowly approached my period date, I noticed
a difference in the way that my body was preparing for my period: No
swollen parts ;) , no real craving for chocolate(*that always makes it
worse for me–SUPER DUPER pain if I eat chocolate) and no dull aches to
prepare for the usual massive ones.

When my period came, I
did not experience menstrual cramps. None. At all. Gone. My mom was so
surprised that she began buying black licorice for me all of the time.

Now…before
you go and buy black licorice for your vicious cramps, it's best to see
a medical doctor about them so that you know for SURE that you can try
this remedy. I'm not prescribing anything here, nor will I ever
prescribe anything to you or anyone else; I'm not a medical doctor–Im
Alma the Seer :) http://www.almatheseer.com. I just wanted to share
this story with you because it really changed the way I take care of
myself around my cycle. Furthermore, it highlights the existence of
clairgustance and clairalience–two of the many channels that the spirit
world uses to communicate with us.

I still use this
remedy but I will say this: Make sure you brush your teeth afterward
(sugar, sugar, sugar!). Also, eat only about 5 per day, 3 days prior to
your period to give it a chance to build up in your system.

Love ya!!!

xoxox

Alma


"I'm cramped and I can't get up!"


"F*k this hurts. I hate cramps….
ugh ughhhhhh… well, at least now I know that I'm not pregnant! HELL
YEAH!!!…ouch, ouch…"

UFO: Look Up!

The name of the park here in Brooklyn where you can see the ships in the
sky is called Grand Ferry Park. It's located at the end of Grand Street
in the Williamsburg section of Brooklyn. The best time to go is at night
when the sky is clear. People might not know what you're doing but
that's the thrill of it–people don't notice what is before their very
eyes…but YOU will. The ships are not positioned super close to the land like planes and other everyday aircrafts so you won't have trouble making the distinction. Also, they move in zig zag patterns and if you study a few of them long enough, you'll see that they may swirl and then at pnr (point of no return), some  disappear.  In life it is so important to "look up" in every sense of the phrase. Some things exists even if you don't believe in them. 
Again, when I tried to post about this last week, I got a bunch of red flags.
Anyway, there you have it. You want to see UFO's, there you have it. :)

I didn't mean to leave everyone hanging with that last post but every time I tried to make a
post, FB gave me problems. Also, I must listen to the higher ups(heavenly beings)
when posting this kind of stuff. It must all be guided and posted with carefully with sound intentions. ♥

Alien

BTW, I'm enjoying the feedback about aliens, UFO's. The situation is that people are constantly trying to prove themselves right to organizations and people who doubt the obvious truth. This debilitating way of "teaching" oneself must come to an end. There are many races within the Universe. The thing is, we have trouble believing that we are ONE human race –because of that doubt, we cannot see past our ourselves and then in turn, see the other races that we are connected to. When you blind yourself with fear and doubt something as beautiful as being 1, you make it harder to see the unique parts of yourself that NEVER need to be frowned upon. How can you possibly see the rainbow in the distance? How can you see the face of another being if your eyes are closed to the part of them that is reflected within you? You cannot. We are all connected properly and evenly, regardless of the way we look and what kind of hair and skin we have. We're in a web which cannot be broken. The web can expand, but it cannot break because we are made from love and so is the silky web. Learning is infinite; we yield the silk every time we learn. When we fight and avoid things, the web doesn't disappear. Our cultures have similarities regardless of religion,government…or planet. With an open mind we can graduate into accepting the truth without so much fear. We can remember what we already know and through that knowledge we do not have to be afraid. Thank you for sharing your stories! I'm still reading them. :) There is nothing wrong with believing in the truth and there is nothing wrong with speaking the truth :) <3

100 Years


The “earthquake” that we experienced here in NYC is called a tremor because it wasn’t as powerful as the 5.8 earthquake in Virginia. I wish that people would stop scaring themselves and everyone by saying that the tremor was out of control and “I read about it in the Bible.” The tremor lasted for 15 seconds and thank God for that.

I didn’t feel it but metaphysically speaking, it definitely knocked something back into place. I feel waaaaaaaaaay more balanced and a bit more grounded. I haven’t felt this balanced in weeks, actually.

This weather stuff has been happening for millions of years on our planet and on other planets. In fact, Jupiter has storms for 100 years at a time. We have our own storms and our own version of earthquakes within us. They’re called changes. These changes cause us to get rid of old thoughts and create new ways of thinking. They can be positive ways or negative ways, whatever the case they are necessary changes. Not all heat waves are terrible; sometimes you need to get angry in order to get to a peaceful place. It’s not all bad, you know?

At one time Jupiter was not Jupiter as we know it. It transformed and now we call it “Jupiter”. The reason for the transformation was to remain in synch with all other things and life forms that were changing. It’s like this: we live together so we change together. Branching off from that but not going too far is with prehistoric animals. Dinosaurs, for example do not exist in their old form during this time, but they are still with us by way of birds and crocodilians.

It’s like people are waiting for something tragic to happen because they want us all to change as a result of a tragedy. Why wait? Why wait to say “please” and “thank you”? Why wait for a natural disaster in order to stop being a thief or to stop being selfish? Why wait for a terrible earthquake to volunteer at a day care center? Why wait for another 9/11 to occur in order to start being nicer to people? If you feel like you have to wait for these things to occur in order for you to change, then that is the way it is… but remember: You are allowed to move ahead. You don’t need permission to change and you don’t need permission to feel good and help others to feel the same.

All in all, you too have hurricanes, you will not end and neither will earth. The energy will remain and transform. If we want to call the next place earth, we will. And God CAN’T be angry because when energy is infinitely good beyond measure, that’s exactly what it is. This great energy is love. Love doesn’t suck, our negative ego sucks.

XOXO

Alma

Actually…

Actually, Im not a life coach

I’m not a life
coach, btw. I know a few people who are life coaches so for me, it’s a
give credit where credit is due type thing. I’m a seer. Some people have
created a title for me that is easier for them to take in since calling
me a seer or saying that I am an individual who is psychic, is too much
to digest. It can be a bit difficult to understand, I know that. The
thing is, Im not going to try to make you believe in me. That’s my job
for myself, every single day.

What I can do for you: I can
help you to see what you are manifesting, see into your past, translate
and communicate with the deceased and draw from the wisdom within
me(which I am infinitely grateful for–thank you God–
http://www.almatheseer.com).
I will not allow anyone to schedule more than 3 appointments in 1
year.  BTW, I can tell if you are just trying to go on a date or chat
with me romantically. Don’t go there, dude. It’s not your job to figure
me out or try to place me in a category of women. And anyway, I’m
smarter than you in more ways that you can imagine. If you were smart,
you would at least READ my info BEFORE asking me what I do and where I
live.  My business is not a dating service, nor is it a way for you to
try and trick me into being “your friend” so that you can get what you
want from me. Save that behavior for your future ex-douchelord. And
don’t ask me what “douchelord” means. Do the work and look it up. If
this sounds too firm, then you mistook my kindness for blindness.

Life
coaches do work that is different from what I do. Often times, they do
one-on-one work with their clients for hours, sometimes days at a time.
That’s not me.  I LOVE helping people too but that’s not my way. When I
say “helping” I mean anything from a genuine compliment+smile at a
stranger on any day, to acknowledging a wandering spirit and then
helping him/her to see the light, to helping a client with a murder
case. It’s easier for me this way. It’s easy on my physical and mental
strength to help big, deep and wide…but never to take on the
responsibility of a life coach.

Sometimes people mistake me for a
life coach because I can be so encouraging.  The way in which you
perceive what I relay to you and how you take my personality is entirely
up to you. Furthermore, your perception is different from the next
person. It may not sound encouraging to hear that someone with a
terminal illness will soon pass to one individual, but to another it may
sound like a gift from God–a chance for the person who is ill to be
free from the pain and heavy energy of our planet.

Life is strange
but not really. We plan a lot of what we swear we never asked for.
After we step into human form, we get all bent out of shape and really
f*ing hurt about shit. People do awful shit, situations leave you high
and dry, and you get yourself into dramas worth writing about…and
sometimes not worth reliving. With all of this, it is STILL our own
individual responsibility to help ourselves. Hanging on people and
expecting them to live 2 lives is selfish, close minded and lazy.

XOxoox

Alma


Fairytale Weddings


I don’t mean to burst anyone’s bubble about their favorite celebrity, but all too often I see "Don’t miss (insert celebrity’s name here) fairytale wedding!"

 So often celeb weddings and engagements are forced and based on $$. They get married for the camera and for selfish reasons and then they act all heartbroken when they get a divorce or break up…on T.V. !

 Not all fairytale endings have smooth rides beforehand. In fact, a lot of people who had hell before they got married have what I call a fairytale wedding/ending because they actually GET TO WALK down the aisle together.  

And as far as the dress goes, Im sure that the people who fought to get married (gay marriage & twin flames to name a couple) don’t find it to be the most important aspect of their moment in time.
Not that it’s shallow to want a beautiful dress, but Im just making the comparison to "fairytale weddings" and…well…fairytale weddings.

The latter includes and is not limited to: The big bad wolf, the cannibalistic witch who tried to eat Hansel & Gretel,Mr. Vinegar,The Wicked Witch of the East, Gaston, The Beast before Belle calmed him the f* down, The Huge Mountain in The little Engine That Could, The men who tried to kill Alma Wade, The Queen of Hearts,Saruman,Gollum,Wicked step mothers and equally wicked step sisters, Ursula the sea witch,Isengard,… . And of course the "fairytale" weddings have publicists and reality T.V. show offers, to name a pair.

Something, something….